I think it's because they cannot forgive, they cannot forgive the other party the hurt and damages they have done to them and choose to ignore/hide from it so they will not have to feel 'hurt''upset' all over again. But the thing is, If God can Forgive all ALL of our sins, why cant we? some people may say, 'yah, Because I'm not God what.' The thing is, If God, the Almighty can Forgive all our sins ( Worst Crimes) , who are WE to say we cannot forgive? even ourselves? It's only Pride. Man's Pride.
we know it is hard to forgive sometimes, especially when the hurt is extremely personal and deep. It is hard because we are doing it with our human strength, human's love to forgive but if it's by God's strength, we can! We cannot but God can, that is the reason God is here, he is here to Save us isn't it? If we can save ourselves, we don't need God. It's only when we know how much we are forgiven that we are able to Forgive. Know that your sins has already been taken up on that Cross and you are perfectly righteous in Jesus Christ! Only when you Let Go, let go of that portion of bitterness towards that something/someone then you can move on with Life.
Acts 37 But he whom God raised up saw no corruption.38 Therefore let it be known to you, brethan, that through this Man is preached to you the forgiveness of Sins; 39 and by him everyone who believes is justified from all things from you could not be justified by the law of Moses.
You are already Forgiven, Let Jesus love you. He longs for you and has been waiting for you, let him into your life.
